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Kraven and Suicide Prevention

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“Kraven’s Last Hunt” is (arguably) one of the best comics ever produced. Yes, J.M. DeMatteis and Mike Zeck are a phenomenal writer and artist combo, but it’s more than that. It does an excellent job of exploring the pressures of living up to beliefs of what it means to be a “real” man.
 
In the Marvel universe, Kraven is a man’s man. He prides himself at being the best hunter in the world. He sports a set of 12 pack abs, and has amazingly chiseled features.

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Even though this is true, he still sees himself as lesser because he has always been bested by Spider-Man; a man a fraction of size and a fraction of his macho charisma. So, Kraven traps Spider-Man, assumes his identity, and proves to himself he is a better hero than Spider-Man, and so a better man. However, what is amazing about the comic, is that it provides a deeper message about masculinity and its negative effects.

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Afterwards, Kraven gives Spider-Man back his costume, goes into an adjacent room, and kills himself.

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Why is this important? Well, according to the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, in 2022, men died by suicide 3.85 times more than women. That’s almost 4xs more. While there are many factors that impact this statistic, it stems from the belief of what it means to be a “real” man. November is Men’s Health Awareness Month which includes mental health. If you have a male in your life you care about, check on them. If you believe they may be in need of some healing and supports, let them know it is okay. Let them know it’s better to be a “good” man rather than attempt to live up to the false beliefs of what it means to be “real” man.

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What's Wrong With Superheroes

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What makes Spider-Man such an appealing superhero to so many individuals across the globe and of so many different ages is his constant struggle to achieve balance. Yes, Spider-Man has super strength and the ability to stop villains such as Doc Oc from imploding New York City, but Peter Parker barely has the money needed, let alone the down payment for a car. Peter Parker struggles to get the girl and provided the needed support for his grandmother, Aunt May, while knowing he is the amazing man behind the mask of an alternate personality.
 
As a society, we struggle to achieve the same balance as Spider-Man in our day-to-day lives. We may be superstars in the workplace, but struggle keep our personal relationships from floundering. These were my thoughts while attending the “One Loud Voice” conference in Biloxi, MS.
 
While there, I ran three great breakout sessions: Heroes, Villains, and Healing (DC Edition), How to Save Your Inner Wonder Woman, Survivor of 1000 faces (Heroes, Villains, and Healing: Marvel Edition)
 
And although the conference was AMAZING, and a number of people approached me afterwards to say how much they enjoyed the sessions, I was still NOT in Baltimore. My students still did not have a teacher. My daughters still woke up to a single parent household. So, while the conference was a success and I am smiling in all the photos, I still missed my connecting flight and unable to take my daughters to the Daddy-Daughter Dance.
 
I only mention this because I wanted you to know that regardless of what you see on social media, everyone battles with balance whether you are a stay-at-home parent, or corporate executive. It may be difficult, but the struggle is worth it.
 
Thanks for the continued support.
 
All the best,
Kenny Rogers