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<lastBuildDate>Sun, 2 Nov 2025 10:32:50 -0500</lastBuildDate><item><title>Gutrot and Mental Filters</title><dc:subject>Free Healing Lessons &#x26; Materials</dc:subject><dc:date>2026-01-25T12:26:38-05:00</dc:date><link>https://www.lostimaginations.com/blog-2/files/85bf73810185ce7e36f77bfdd6f70d0b-2.html#unique-entry-id-2</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.lostimaginations.com/blog-2/files/85bf73810185ce7e36f77bfdd6f70d0b-2.html#unique-entry-id-2</guid><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:center;"><span style="font:21px Apple-Chancery; "><u>Changing Negative Automatic Thoughts</u></span><span style="font:12px Times-Roman; "><br /></span><span style="font:21px Times-Bold; font-weight:bold; font-weight:bold; ">Cognitive Distortions</span><span style="font:12px Times-Roman; "><br /></span><span style="font:18px Georgia, serif; ">Gutrot and Mental Filters<br /></span><img class="imageStyle" alt="Screenshot 2026-01-18 at 8.30.46 AM" src="https:/www.lostimaginations.com/blog-2/files/screenshot-2026-01-18-at-8.30.46202fam.png" width="157" height="241" /><img class="imageStyle" alt="Screenshot 2026-01-18 at 8.52.07 AM" src="https:/www.lostimaginations.com/blog-2/files/screenshot-2026-01-18-at-8.52.07202fam.png" width="157" height="245" /><span style="font:18px Georgia, serif; "><br /></span><span style="font:12px Times-Roman; "><br /></span><span style="font:14px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; ">The way in which survivors of adverse childhood experiences think can significantly impact their self-esteem, resulting in feelings of loss of hope from lack of clearly defined goals, low willpower, and / or low waypower. It is for this reason identifying and changing cognitive distortions is vital to living with courage, improving self-esteem, and fostering the growth of hope. Some common cognitive distortions are:</span><span style="font:12px Times-Roman; "><br /></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font:14px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; ">Childish Automatic Thoughts</span><span style="font:12px Times-Roman; "><br /></span><ul class="disc"><li><span style="font:14px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; font-weight:bold; font-weight:bold; ">All-or-Nothing Thinking</span><span style="font:14px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; ">: viewing everything in absolute, black-and-white categories</span></li><li><span style="font:14px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; font-weight:bold; font-weight:bold; ">Magnification and Minimization:</span><span style="font:14px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; "> Either blowing events and circumstances way out of proportion or shrinking their impact</span></li><li><span style="font:9px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; ">&nbsp;</span><span style="font:14px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; font-weight:bold; font-weight:bold; ">Overgeneralization: </span><span style="font:14px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; ">viewing negative events as a never-ending cycle</span></li><li><span style="font:14px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; font-weight:bold; font-weight:bold; ">Emotional Reasoning:</span><span style="font:14px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; "> individuals reason from how they feel what kind of person they are, believing that if they &ldquo;feel&rdquo; like a loser than they must &ldquo;be&rdquo; a loser</span></li><li><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; font-weight:bold; font-weight:bold; ">Personalization and Blame:</span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; "> individuals blame themselves for something they were not entirely responsible for, or they blame others while denying their role in the problem</span></li></ul><span style="font:12px Times-Roman; "><br /></span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; ">Parental Automatic Thoughts</span><span style="font:12px Times-Roman; "><br /></span><ul class="disc"><li><span style="font:9px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; ">&nbsp;</span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; font-weight:bold; font-weight:bold; ">Mental Filter:</span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; "> denying the positive and only dwelling on only the negative</span></li><li><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; font-weight:bold; font-weight:bold; ">Discounting the Positives:</span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; "> insisting that accomplishments of positive qualities are not worthwhile</span></li><li><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; font-weight:bold; font-weight:bold; ">Labeling: </span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; ">instead of stating, &ldquo;I made a mistake,&rdquo; individuals call themselves names such as &ldquo;idiot,&rdquo; &ldquo;loser,&rdquo; and &ldquo;jerk&rdquo;</span></li><li><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; font-weight:bold; font-weight:bold; ">&ldquo;Should / Shouldn&rsquo;t Have&rdquo; Statements: </span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; ">individuals criticize themselves and / or others with phrases such as &ldquo;should,&rdquo; &ldquo;ought,&rdquo; &ldquo;must,&rdquo; and &ldquo;have to,&rdquo; rather than &ldquo;want to&rdquo;</span></li></ul><span style="font:12px Times-Roman; "><br /></span><span style="font:14px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; ">Improving self-esteem and accepting our inner Daredevil means putting in the work needed to rid our thoughts of cognitive distortions. This is done by transforming childish automatic thoughts and Parental automatic thoughts into adult automatic thoughts that provide survivors with the grace needed to no longer view themselves and their actions as those of a villain, but instead a human capable of healing and growing from mistakes of the past. (To better understand childish, parental, and adult automatic read &ldquo;Chapter Three: Coping, Healing, and Cognitive Distortions&rdquo; of </span><span style="font:14px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; "><em>Hope, Heroes, and Healing: Accepting Your Inner Daredevil.</em></span><span style="font:14px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; ">)</span><span style="font:14px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; "><em> </em></span><span style="font:14px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; ">Eliminating cognitive distortions ensures survivors become the best version of themselves rather than attempting to become and remain superheroes.<br /><br /></span><span style="font:14px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; "><a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1IuKPqw6lH0nJoTif8G7AdRd_UIYpIjHjCprtLShw9iY/copy" target="_blank">CLICK HERE TO CREATE A PERSONAL COPY OF THE GRAPHIC ORGANIZER USED TO HELP CHANGE THE COGNITIVE DISTORTION OF MENTAL FILTERS.</a></span></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Matt Murdock and Adverse Childhood Expereinces</title><dc:subject>Free Healing Lessons &#x26; Materials</dc:subject><dc:date>2025-11-05T07:40:10-05:00</dc:date><link>https://www.lostimaginations.com/blog-2/files/97a35cf2c210f8cff42a2c5b55454808-1.html#unique-entry-id-1</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.lostimaginations.com/blog-2/files/97a35cf2c210f8cff42a2c5b55454808-1.html#unique-entry-id-1</guid><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;"><em>&ldquo;Life isn&rsquo;t fair. When I was a boy, I did something good &ndash; and was struck blind as a reward. But there were compensations. My other senses were magnified to superhuman levels. I could &lsquo;see&rsquo; all around me with a virtual radar. I grew up using gifts to become a lawyer by day and a crimebuster by night&hellip;all to help balance the scales in an unjust world. My name is Matt Murdock. And that&rsquo;s my mission.&rdquo;</em></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;"><br /></span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;">Matt Murdock, </span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;"><em>Daredevil #1 (2014)<br /></em></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;"><br /></span><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="imageStyle" alt="Screenshot 2025-11-03 at 4.39.10 AM" src="https:/www.lostimaginations.com/blog-2/files/screenshot-2025-11-03-at-4.39.10202fam.png" width="190" height="299" /><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;"><br /></span><br /></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;">	In </span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;"><em>Daredevil #1</em></span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;">, 1969, Matt Murdock&rsquo;s origin reveals he grew up without a mother and was told by his father to spend all of his free time studying. He was also bullied by his other kids in the neighborhood and given the nickname, Daredevil which he later embraced as a superhero. Later, he was stricken blind by a radioactive isotope while saving a stranger from being struck by a careening truck. Finally, his father was murdered for refusing to throw the prize-winning heavy weight boxing match.<br /><br /></span></p><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="imageStyle" alt="Screenshot 2025-11-03 at 4.40.21 AM" src="https:/www.lostimaginations.com/blog-2/files/screenshot-2025-11-03-at-4.40.21202fam-2.png" width="276" height="175" /><img class="imageStyle" alt="Screenshot 2025-11-03 at 4.42.08 AM" src="https:/www.lostimaginations.com/blog-2/files/screenshot-2025-11-03-at-4.42.08202fam-2.png" width="164" height="170" /><br /><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;"><br /></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;">Understanding the link between Matt Murdock&rsquo;s traumatic childhood, our own, and long-term effects of adverse childhood experiences helps to remind us as survivors that who we are now is not who we were at our beginnings. In the same way the Daredevil of today is different from the Matt Murdock of decades prior in appearance, attitude, and abilities we are also different from our childhood selves. Our origins as survivors, whether fictional or real, are all different, but similar and help to define who we are as individuals and the way in which we see the world. The individual prior to any traumatic event has been shaped and molded by lived experiences, knowledge gained, lessons learned, and relationships that have either been nurtured to grow or fallen to ruin, creating the person that holds this text and reads these words. Whether you consider yourself a hero or view yourself as a villain, your journey as a survivor has led you this moment reading the words on this page.</span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;"><br /></span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; To move forward and heal, we first have to confront and understand the past and all it entails. This means calculating your ACE score. There are many different websites and questionnaires that can be used to calculate your ACE score. The charts below include areas for reflection regarding each adverse childhood experience, and an opportunity to include other ACEs that are not included in the list of 10 questions. Complete this chart to determine your ACE score:</span><span style="font:12px Times-Roman; color:#000000;"> <br /><br /></span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; font-weight:bold; color:#000000;font-weight:bold; "><u>STEP 1:</u></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;"><br /></span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; To help complete your ACE chart, below is a completed chart documenting the ACEs of Matt Murdock and the possible reflections he would include following the incidents in the graphic novel </span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;"><em>Daredevil: Battlin&rsquo; Jack Murdock</em></span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;"> (2008). If you can, read this comic short comic series using the Marvel Unlimited app. </span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;"><a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/10oC5ZASXvqTQpqv9RYY24Vq1964kIuQKQmum5coFo14/edit?usp=sharing" target="_blank">CLICK HERE TO VIEW MATT MURDOCK&rsquo;S ACE SCORE</a></span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;">.<br /></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;"><br /></span></p><p style="text-align:center;"><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;">&nbsp;</span><img class="imageStyle" alt="Screenshot 2025-11-05 at 5.55.52 AM" src="https:/www.lostimaginations.com/blog-2/files/screenshot-2025-11-05-at-5.55.52202fam.png" width="119" height="182" /><img class="imageStyle" alt="Screenshot 2025-11-05 at 5.56.40 AM" src="https:/www.lostimaginations.com/blog-2/files/screenshot-2025-11-05-at-5.56.40202fam.png" width="119" height="182" /><img class="imageStyle" alt="Screenshot 2025-11-05 at 5.57.09 AM" src="https:/www.lostimaginations.com/blog-2/files/screenshot-2025-11-05-at-5.57.09202fam.png" width="119" height="182" /><img class="imageStyle" alt="Screenshot 2025-11-05 at 5.57.27 AM" src="https:/www.lostimaginations.com/blog-2/files/screenshot-2025-11-05-at-5.57.27202fam.png" width="119" height="182" /><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;"><br /></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;">&nbsp;</span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;"><br /></span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; font-weight:bold; color:#000000;font-weight:bold; "><u>STEP 2:</u></span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; font-weight:bold; color:#000000;font-weight:bold; "> </span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;"><br /></span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;">Calculate your own ACE score. Answer the questions in the ACE calculator to the best of your ability by answering either yes or no in regards to events that took place on or prior to your 18</span><span style="font:13px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;">th</span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;"> birthday. Afterward, add your &ldquo;yes&rdquo; answers to determine your ACE score.</span><span style="font:16px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;"><a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1EQNYTZ21c3dL4gbb7D4sJxSYDBkTXiRZ3N7Vkm1lPV8/copy" target="_blank"> CLICK HERE TO MAKE A PERSONAL COPY OF THE ACE CHART TO CALCULATE YOUR ACE SCORE.</a></span><span style="font:12px Times-Roman; color:#000000;"><a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1EQNYTZ21c3dL4gbb7D4sJxSYDBkTXiRZ3N7Vkm1lPV8/copy" target="_blank"> </a></span></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Superman&#x2c; Hope&#x2c; and Major Disaster</title><dc:subject>Free Healing Lessons &#x26; Materials</dc:subject><dc:date>2025-11-02T10:36:20-05:00</dc:date><link>https://www.lostimaginations.com/blog-2/files/4f4b20834fcfe33f9f5a4ac5cf0299b1-0.html#unique-entry-id-0</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.lostimaginations.com/blog-2/files/4f4b20834fcfe33f9f5a4ac5cf0299b1-0.html#unique-entry-id-0</guid><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;">Sometimes your greatest strength is being able to give a damn when nobody else does.<br /></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;">-</span><span style="font:9px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;">Lois Lane / Action Comics #1084 &ldquo;Force Majeure: Finale&rdquo; (2025)<br /></span><p style="text-align:center;"><span style="font:26px Times-Bold; font-weight:bold; color:#000000;font-weight:bold; "><u>Superman, Hope, and Major Disaster</u></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;"><br /></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;">Hope is more than a word. It requires a balance of Willpower, Waypower, and goal setting. Before understanding these terms and how they all work together to create hope it is important to understand your hope score. To do that you will read three Superman comics that discuss Hope, what it means to have Hope, and whether or not an individual can lose Hope. You will also use this to make a copy of the </span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;"><a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1E8onseSFS4kgzG0Web0Q4fN_wBzQkAe_zdAhiAm8QE4/copy" target="_blank">HOPE SCALE TEMPLATE</a></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;"> to find your own hope score.<br />&nbsp;<br /></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;"><u>STEP 1</u></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;"><br />Directions: Read Actions Comics #1082 &ldquo;Force Majeure: Part One&rdquo; (2025) either independently or with your therapist, counselor, and / or psychiatrist. If you do not have the physical comic, you can read the comic using the DC Infinite app. After reading the comic, examine </span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;"><u><a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ySd0fTnGfp3MsyFK0cBTxWVdjumspbrE74m_ROksv_s/edit?usp=sharing" target="_blank">MAJOR DISASTER'S HOPE SCALE #1 FOUND HERE</a></u></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;"> and discuss the questions below with your therapist, counselor, and / or psychiatrist. Take note of the conversation in your personal journal.<br />&nbsp;<br /></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;">1)</span><span style="font:9px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;">What factors prevented Major Disaster from getting a higher Hope score?<br /></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;">&nbsp;<br /></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;"><u>STEP 2</u></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;"><br />Directions: Next, read Action Comics #1083 &ldquo;Force Majeure: Part Two&rdquo; (2025) and Action Comics #1084 &ldquo;Force Majeure: Finale&rdquo; (2025) either independently or with your therapist, counselor, and / or psychiatrist and calculate </span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;"><a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CMEcG4vXyB8kZahjYIRF6MpEiN5cDE62KbbiR611UFI/edit?usp=sharing" target="_blank">MAJOR DISASTER'S HOPE SCORE #2 FOUND HERE</a></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;">. Afterward, discuss the questions below with your therapist, counselor / psychiatrist. Take notes of the conversation in your personal journal.<br />&nbsp;<br /></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;">2)</span><span style="font:9px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;">Did Major Disaster&rsquo;s hope score change? If so, what factors contributed to the changing of his Hope score.<br /></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;">&nbsp;<br /></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;">3)</span><span style="font:9px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;">What was Superman / Clark Kent&rsquo;s role in determining Major Disaster&rsquo;s Hope score?<br /></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;">&nbsp;<br /></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;">4)</span><span style="font:9px Times, Georgia, Courier, serif; color:#000000;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;">What are the comics&rsquo; overall message about Hope?<br /></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;">&nbsp;<br /></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;"><u>STEP 3</u></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;"><br /></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;">Directions: Now that you are familiar with using the Hope Chart, use the chart to calculate your current Hope score by making a copy of the </span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;"><a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1E8onseSFS4kgzG0Web0Q4fN_wBzQkAe_zdAhiAm8QE4/copy" target="_blank">HOPE SCALE TEMPLATE FOUND HERE</a></span><span style="font-size:16px; color:#000000;">. In the same way the chart was used to document Major Disaster&rsquo;s changing Hope, your Hope Chart will be used to determine the fluctuation of your Hope over time.</span><span style="font:12px Times-Roman; color:#000000;"> </span><br /></p>]]></content:encoded></item></channel>
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